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children need to step out of their comfort zone and embrace change to truly grow. the most important thing is to cultivate children's independent learning ability and let them understand that learning is not external coercion, but a process of self-exploration.

i once tried to guide my child to learn in a "passive" way. i clearly know that the homework for my child during the transition period from kindergarten to primary school is just a simple reminder, not a "forced" learning. but as my child grows up, i gradually discover the value of "independent learning".

when my child took the initiative to pick up her homework book and proposed the idea of ​​"doing homework", my anxiety was relieved a lot. i helped her solve problems and review the learning process from the perspective of companionship, instead of just focusing on the handwriting and answers. this made me see the independence and growth of my child.

in elementary school, i gradually changed my control over the way my child learned. i no longer "watched" my child "write" every word, but sat by her side, reading books or doing my own work, accompanying her and supporting her.

this method makes children feel trusted and encouraged during the learning process, and thus they learn more actively.

when children face new challenges, we need to help them find solutions rather than simply "suppressing" their emotions. this requires us to understand our goals, be clear about what we want, and be firm in our ideas.

we live in a world full of changes, and the social phenomenon of involution also reflects people's psychology of seeking a sense of security in confusion and anxiety. but "not involution" does not mean giving up, it is more of a proactive attitude, a kind of hope and courage for the future.

the growth path of children is full of challenges and opportunities. we need to help children set their own goals and provide them with appropriate guidance, rather than blindly following the crowd. only by clarifying their own goals can they find the path they want, strengthen their own ideas, and not be swayed by external interference, and finally "bloom" with beauty and confidence.